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Apr 5, 2011
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What does it mean to have a healthy relationship?

  To have a healthy relationship is having a relationship or even just a friendship with someone that will both test you from time to time and also be there for you whenever you need them regardless if you all or arguing or not. First lets start with healthy and unhealthy friendships.

  A healthy friendship is all the fights,arguments and pain, in combination of all the love, the feelings and emotions that come within being friends. A good friend will always be honest with you even if it may hurt your feelings sometimes, at least there being honest. A friend will be there for you through the good and the bad, and will never let you down.

  In an unhealthy relationship however, things are the complete oppisite. This "friend" will tell you things that may not be true, just to hurt you intentionally. They don't care about your feelings and if you ever do get into an argument with this person, they most defintly won't be there for you when you need them. These type of friends are called frienemies as in your enimies disguised as your friends.

  Relationships such as boyfriends and girlfriends are a little more complex. Alot of the tine, we as teenagers are blinded by love. By that i mean we try to only see what we want to see, in the way that we want to see it. This is often the cause of us putting ourselves in unsafe situations,relationships rather. For this fact, i can't really give advice on what to do other then always keep your eyes open, and let your mind not you heart direct you.