What IF the guy you been for a while ask you to have sex with him? what if proclaimed his love for you by asking you to be his girlfriend? What if?.. When it comes down to love theres a lot WHAT IF?... but regardless of the circumstances the most important thing you can do for yourself is to stay true to the beliefs you believe in. It becomes complicated when the person you have the most affectionate towards is trying to convince you into doing something that to many is very tempting. What I learned through out my life is that keeping it real to myself is the up most important and essential I can do. People are always going to try and convince you to do something, yes its important to keep an open mind but don't let people make up your mind. Have any of you had a similar situation?