Community :: Why have SEX?
ummm there is a lot of reasons and influences behind girls decision when it comes down to sex. Do they do it to replace a feeling or emotion they don't get at their house hold? Is it a trend in todays popular culture? What do you think?
i agree i saw this topic and i just had to respond to yours girl when you give it up to a dude he starts completely different.Most girls can be very naive nevertheless very sensitive so when you don't want to give your goodies up to the guy he says its over and he doesn't want to talk to to you anymore so the girl gives in because she doesn't want to lose him. But my advice is that don't grow up too fast and let anybody pressure you into doing anything your not ready or willing to do. Just wait until your ready when the time is right. If the dude your with cant understand that then he doesn't need to be with you and hes not worth your time.Let him go.Real talk but um.......yea it looks like ive said what i needed to say any questions or comments please respond.
I agree popular culture is hard to ignore and when guys fall into it they tend to treat girls with disrespect. And girls of course love boys and a lot of the take it instead of seeking for something better. its hards for girls and boys, sometime girls act a certain way thinking guys like it due to stereotypes on t.v but I believe the majority guys like good girls. And girls even though they are with a "bad" ass sometimes of not all the time wish their bf were a little bit nicer. This whole relationship thing is so complicated, especially if you have someone who thinks their p.diddy haha not my situation but definitely my pass situation
Peer pressure and media also plays a huge role. Boys turn to the streets to have the feeling of "acceptance" & girls turn to guys to validate them and feel wanted. SO i agree with Allison. But having sex to keep somebody with you is not a good idea and any situation where thats neccesary is not a healthy situation. It turns quickly into regret!
I agree, young ladies and anyone really seeks ways to replace love or some just turn emo or sunk into depression.
most of the time it will be to replace thje feeling of being wanted. Having sex is a form of them being able to feel loved and wanted by someone if it was not in the home. other times it may be to prove the feelings they have for someone else to try and get them to stay with them
yes, I have noticed how guys change with their girlfriends after having sex. Its like they don't even care anymore. This convinces me that a lot of young man do not know the meaning of love so when they experience they don't know how to react. Its so sad to see single teen mothers, they probably were just seeking for love and ended up alone with a baby.