Community :: how do express love to your boyfreind/ girlfreind without having sex?
now and days its not uncommon for teens to have sex. but what about the few of us who doesnt want to have sex, but we really do love our better half? see me? me and mine? we cupcake ALOT like everytime we hang out where always hand and hand or hugged up or being affectionate in some way, wich is how we express love without sex. but thats just me, let me know what yall think, or any more advice about how to do this?
How long have you been with him? that's how it always starts then it gets more serious. I think its important for everyone to find a way to pleasure themselves, I'm not saying to masturbate but that could be an option. Hobbies are important especially if they relax you. Meditation is key, sometimes when stressed out we want something to make us feel good and your bf can become that drug that relieves you. Which can increase the chances of you having sex, basically the point that I'm trying to send across is that cupcaking can lead to more when you are in a vulnerable state of mind. So finding a way to make yourself happy is important, also reminding yourself of the beliefs you worship.
There are a lot of ways to show your affection without having sex. I was with my ex boyfriend for 2 1/2 years without sex. If its reall love the support fun and affection fills you up and the sex is just the cherry on top, its not the sole purpose of being in a relationship